Julie got the Memo

I’m a true believer in things happening for a reason but sometimes, sometimes, things don’t need to happen and situations should be avoided. With that being said, tell me, how do you get rid of someone you no longer want contact with? I’ve stalked a boy before, if we’re being honest I’ve stalked a couple boys. One was much nicer about it than the other but point is, WOW. I had no idea how uncomfortable and scary it was for the stalkee.

I made the mistake of giving my time to a man who was not worthy. He seemed to think that meant we were going to fall in love or something. I’m not trying to be mean, just real. Women are notorious for not accepting things as they are, we know, we know, we tend to go a bit overboard BUT that’s because men lie. They lie!

A lie, is a lie, is a lie.

I’ve said it a million times, when a woman gets a little cray it’s because we have been lied to about the reality of our situation. What excuse does a man have for not accepting the reality of his? Maybe I should have been firm from the jump but even us women don’t want to hurt feelings or break hearts. I had no choice but to be a bitch. You cannot text someone, Good Morning, Good afternoon and Good night. Especially when you have not received a reply to those texts.

Mistake.

I had no intention of loving him.

I would simply use him to forget my woes.

In the harshest light of truth, I saw him for what he was.

Weak.

Nothing about him enticed me, nothing attracted me.

In an attempt to remove myself from the situation I ended up drawing him further in.

I wasn’t playing hard to get.

I didn’t want him to work for it.

I simply wanted to be rid of him.

Mistake.

Many of us make them.

I was bombarded with text and unwanted visits.

Mistakes that turn into awkward situations.

Stalk me, don’t you dare.

How to be rid of an unwanted man?

Tell him, he won’t hear it.

Can’t see it and won’t respect it.

I had no intention of loving him, no intention of keeping him

He wanted to be kept and I couldn’t escape.

How does one undo what she has done?

 

 

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