Karma…is she not magnificent?
When you least expect it she comes and kicks your ass or in the best case scenario, she redeems you in the perfect moment.
Why do I say she? Well let’s be real, only a woman could be so vengeful, only a woman could perfectly time sweet revenge or validation.
Whether Karma is coming to your defense or to completely ruin your life, she’s coming.
As most of you know, I have been writing a book entitled “Do you love yourself, enough to love yourself?” 12 steps to getting you out from under him and finally getting the fu$k over him! In this how-to, help book of sorts, I ask that you list 5 reasons why you need to let him go. I’m going to help you and provide you with one reason, KARMA.
Yes, ladies, karma should be the number one reason you let go and let him be. Sometimes relationships don’t work and that’s ok, even if you have a kid or two or three! When a man is not meant for you and you hold on you are creating instant karma. He is not for you.
Repeat after me,
“He is not for me, God knows why even if I don’t”
How is that bad or negative karma? It’s simple, if you’re really honest with yourself you know exactly why things are over or why they never truly began in some cases, so go over those reasons and then insert the karmic effects.
♠ You were the other woman, whether you knew or not, karma will come back for you. (or vice versa)
♠ You lied to him, you cheated on him or vice versa, karma will have her way with you and if it was him doing the lying and cheating, karma will validate you, you just have to step aside and let her do her work.
♠ You’re not in the same headspace, you can’t see eye to eye, you want more than he’s willing to give you.. or vice versa. Karma knows when and how she will remind you of the man you could not let go, she will remind you how you made his life difficult because he wasn’t ready. Or the total opposite, she will validate you.
Let go of him for you, for your karmic bank. Fill that account with nothing but ROI’s!
Seriously, if a man is truly meant for you, even a break or time apart won’t change that. Let time and karma do what they do.
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