I wanna know why we let our emotions get the better of us?
Why does a woman allow her heart to over power her mind?
We know when we are wrong, we know when we gotta let go and we truly know when we have to move on and yet we don’t.
Is it stubbornness?
Is it ego?
Is it love?
Who the fuck knows?
You do bitch. You know.
It’s you being a fuckin terca, throwing a fucking tantrum bc a man told you no.
Because you ain’t getting what you expected.
Expectation is a tricky bitch.
Are you one of them that jumps from dude to dude with high expectations?
Are you a hopeless romantic?
Are you afraid of being alone?
It’s not them, it’s us.
Don’t expect a man to fix you.
Don’t expect a man to fix your life.
A man, a fiancé, a husband isn’t gonna fix shit.
Fix yourself so that when the right man comes along you won’t be expecting anything but genuine love from him and be wise enough to know that if he isn’t giving it willingly, he isn’t going to.
On the other end of that spectrum, when you know, you know.
Nothing, not time, not distance, not bumps in the road will steer you off track. You’ll make it, together.
And when I say bumps in the road I don’t mean infidelity or shit that you bring into the relationship. I mean the shit that is out of your control, things that happen in life that you are unprepared for.
Stop fighting for a man who can’t keep his dick in check. Or check yourself and stop giving your pussy to random dudes.
Keeping it real, we can be shady too.
Don’t bring in extra drama, relationships are hard enough without someone adding to the mix.
So again I ask, why do we allow our emotions to run shit? When your mind is clearly giving you the answers when your gut is screaming at you, why do we listen to our bleeding heart?
At the end of the day, the only person you should expect anything from is yourself.
You should expect yourself to be at peace when you’re alone.
You should expect yourself to pay your own damn bills.
You should expect yourself to know the difference between love and lust.
You should only expect greatness from yourself.
Put you first and everything else will align.